stonewallI think sometimes we forget just how good we have it.

Half a century ago, homosexuals were classified as subversives by the US Department of State; we were officially recognized as security risks to the country. The FBI kept lists of known homosexuals, as did the US Postal Service. The names of people arrested for public indecency and lewd behavior (ie, two men holding hands, women wearing suits) were published regularly in newspapers. Being queer was officially recognized as a psychopathic condition, and was a valid reason to be fired from your job. The number of gay men and women forced out of the military and government positions was in the thousands each year. If gay people regularly congregated together, the police department’s “Public Morals Squad” would be called in to intervene. Police brutality was commonplace. Hope for the future was pretty bleak; there were no substantial gay rights organizations. The only real “community” gay people had was in underground establishments, often maintained with help from criminal organizations like the Mafia, or by bribing the police.

Exactly 40 years ago today, things began to change. Prompted by one feisty lesbian’s shout of “Why don’t you guys DO something?”, queer people fought back (literally) against institutionalized discrimination and cultural genocide.

6a00d83451c83e69e200e550393c1a8834-800wiAt Stonewall, a Mafia-run gay dance club and bar, police had barricaded the gay clientele inside so that their names could be collected and distributed to the local newspapers. Those who were drinking were arrested, and anyone dressing as a woman (including those who actually were women) were forced to prove their gender by removing their clothes. Anyone seen cross-dressing was also arrested. Reportedly, police brutally assaulted a number of the bar’s patrons, including sexually harassing butch lesbians. Eventually, as some men and women were allowed to leave, a crowd gathered outside the bar. When one lesbian was dragged out of the club, police hitting her to try to force her into a caged car filled with cuffed gays, she shouted at the crowd of hundreds to do something… this prompted what we now refer to as the Stonewall Riots, and marked the beginning of the American Gay Rights Movement.

A LOT has changed since Stonewall. First of all, I NEVER would have come out if I lived in a society as violent towards gays as did the people in the 1960s and 1970s… we now live in a culture where many people feel they can safely express their true identity. I haven’t been hit by a police officer to date (unless my Dad counts), and gay people have almost the same rights as straight people in the workplace. With a few exceptions, I am no longer considered a threat to US national security, and there are so many gay organizations that I can’t possibly participate in as many as I would like.

Not enough credit is given to the brave queer pioneers who stood up to mainstream society when it was intent on stamping out the perversion of non-heterosexual identities. People like Evelyn Hooker, the founders of the Mattachine Society, and later leaders like Harvey Milk are underappreciated for the contribution they’ve made to our world. We have a tendency to take our liberties for granted, as if they were ours all along. Its way too easy to forget that just a generation ago people risked their lives and livelihoods in order to make the advances toward equality that we enjoy today.

The idea that the gay rights movement can now declare victory is a bunch of bullshit.

The list of rights that are still not granted to our community is substantial. Defense of Marriage Act, Don’t Ask Don’t Tell, ENDA, hate crimes legislation… those are just the high profile ones. We still have a long way to go; cleansing the imbedded discrimination from US laws is going to be a long process. And institutionalized discrimination is just the beginning… changing laws are one thing, but changing society is another. Its very easy to board ourselves up in WeHo or Castro and pretend that everything is glittery goodness, but it’s a lie… we shouldn’t have to live at the sidelines of mainstream society just to feel accepted.

Maybe our generation of queers needs a hero? Maybe we need a lezzie in handcuffs encouraging us to “DO something,” or a young politician trying to “recruit” us? But honestly, I’d like to think we could each individually, both gay and straight, take responsibility for the wellbeing of our own society. The temptation of apathy shouldn’t be so strong that it stifles a movement that is still very much in its infancy. A lot has been done in 40 years, but that doesn’t mean that America has reached its full potential.

And you know what? There is a world beyond American borders where there is no such thing as a “gay community,” and gay rights are just a strange and vague pipedream. There are still plenty of places in the world where gays are regularly executed, where little queer boys and girls wonder what’s wrong with them, and if they’re the only ones… and we think our job is done?

Nope.

7 Responses to “40 Years After Stonewall”

  1. Tyler said

    Great post. I was thinking of doing one myself but I’ll just link to yours instead.

    I was in New York a few weeks ago and I saw a small brick building with a bunch of rainbow flags, but I was too far away to read the signs. So I walked over while my mom and my sister were shopping, and there it was: The Stonewall Inn. It was very strange to just suddenly happen upon such an important historical site like that. Of course, it’s still a gay bar today, and I ended up going in and buying a couple drinks and a t-shirt.

    I think you’re right that we don’t have a single strong “leader” (or “fierce advocate” if you will) right now but Californians should definitely vote for Gavin Newsom next year. That may be the closest we come in the near future.

    • kmcneal said

      I am so stoked for Newsom! I went to one of his town halls in LA last semester, and he is such a huge advocate… he spent probably a quarter of his speech talking about gay rights issues, and the town hall wasn’t even specifically on lgbt stuff. He’d be an awesome gov.

      Also, what is Stonewall like inside? I couldn’t find any good pictures.

      • Tyler said

        It’s basically just a typical bar. Not extremely big or anything. I was there in early afternoon (happy hour was like 2pm to 9pm or something) so there were only like 2 people there. There are some pictures on the wall, commemorating the Stonewall riots and other gay-rights events. There was one I remember of a tombstone that said (paraphrase) “The army gave me a medal for killing two men, and discharged me for loving one.”

        Across the street, there’s a little park with some statues and stuff.

        I might have some pictures…

  2. Chris said

    Very nice. Found my way over here from TJ’s blog.

    I would think that once, for the most part, the “national security risk” bit was fixed that things like marriage rights, military service, anti-discrimination, etc. would quickly follow. National progress’s sluggish pace never ceases to amaze, though… Let’s keep kicking ass, and I’m there with you guys all the way.

    Only got around to seeing Milk very recently, and loved it to death obviously. Gavin Newsom’s definitely a possibility, and has a chance to broaden the appeal; I can see how people like Harvey Milk were required to rise up from within the community, but perhaps at this point Newsom is the right guy for the work that needs to be done. Hoping for the very best in the coming years!

    • kmcneal said

      Yeah, I think at this point a really strong Ally in politics might even be more important for lgbt issues than a strong self-advocate. I was hoping Obama would do it, but so far that hasn’t really panned out.

  3. Katie said

    Hey Kyle, I like your blog. It’s really cool to put things in perspective like that for the community. Have you ever read Stone Butch Blues? It’s the best “history book” I’ve read for gay rights, even though it’s fiction.

    I’m adding you to my blog list :)

    • kmcneal said

      Thanks! I haven’t ready Stone Butch Blues, but I’ll definitely add it to my summer reading. Right now I’m about halfway through Making Gay History, which is basically the history of the modern movement (starting in the 1930s-ish), all told through people who were actually involved… its the perfect blend of factual and personal, IMO.

      And I bookmarked your page as well. =]

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